Let's face it, we all have some types of problems in our lives. Some small, while others are a bit bigger. Sometimes we create our own problems when we don't mean to. Then we try to solve them on our own. While in this process we may be stepping on our friends and all we end up doing is putting ourselves into a deeper hole then we were already in. But let me tell you this, there is always a way out. You are never stuck in your mess, because all you have to do is ask for help. You aren't alone. There are over 1.2 billion people on this earth and someone is bound to help you. Weather it be a friend, family member, or someone you don't even know. We've all had our share of problems and some of us have gone through similar situations. So no matter what problem you have, someone can help you. You are more then the problems you create. You are more <3.
Thursday, August 16, 2012
Saturday, July 28, 2012
You Are More; Mistakes
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photo: screenshot from my phone. It's been taken from instagram by instagod_
This post is closely related to Choices. As stated in the photo, Your mistakes don't define you. When you do something wrong, you can either learn from it or let eat you alive (figuratively...). And that is my little tidbit of knowledge until the next post. (:
Friday, July 20, 2012
You Are More; Choices
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Life is nothing but choices. Our everday lives are based off of choices made by us and other people. Sometimes we make good ones, while other times we may not. Good choices may not always make life easier, but when it all boils down to the point, they are about doing the right thing. Bad choices always make life harder. A poor desicision made by someone else may affect your life but you can't let it define who you really are. Example: A man get drunk at a bar and decides to drive home intoxicated. He crashes into to your car (with you in it) and now you are both severly injured. Based off of his bad choice he has now also affected you. But that's the focous of this post.
We are human, we are going to made poor choices, and we are going to mess up, but that doesn't mean you should let bad choices rule our lives. You are more then the choices that you make (Tenth Avenue North reference) One bad choice does not define who you are or who you are going to be. You shouldn't let it rule your life. You are more.
Life is nothing but choices. Our everday lives are based off of choices made by us and other people. Sometimes we make good ones, while other times we may not. Good choices may not always make life easier, but when it all boils down to the point, they are about doing the right thing. Bad choices always make life harder. A poor desicision made by someone else may affect your life but you can't let it define who you really are. Example: A man get drunk at a bar and decides to drive home intoxicated. He crashes into to your car (with you in it) and now you are both severly injured. Based off of his bad choice he has now also affected you. But that's the focous of this post.
We are human, we are going to made poor choices, and we are going to mess up, but that doesn't mean you should let bad choices rule our lives. You are more then the choices that you make (Tenth Avenue North reference) One bad choice does not define who you are or who you are going to be. You shouldn't let it rule your life. You are more.
You Are More - Tenth Avenue North
This song has helped through a lot of stuff. I Absolutely adore this song.
NEW! Mini Series!
Hey everyone! Just got back from my 2nd vacation to Concan, Tx (deffinetly cooler then Arkansas) and while I was floating down the Frion Rio, I got got some bueno (good) ideas (:
So with out futher delay I present to ya'll my new mini series called You Are More!! It's based off my favorite song You Are More by Tenth Avenue North and it will consist of seven "lessons" or posts. After this I plan on having another mini series call Dear God (coming soon). In the past 2 years or so I thought it would be cool to write to God (This was before I knew about the movie Letters to God) and in that series there will also be seven "lessons" or posts. Anyway I hope you enjoy the next seven posts cause they will be awesome. (The first one doesn't count though because it's the music video for the actual song).
So with out futher delay I present to ya'll my new mini series called You Are More!! It's based off my favorite song You Are More by Tenth Avenue North and it will consist of seven "lessons" or posts. After this I plan on having another mini series call Dear God (coming soon). In the past 2 years or so I thought it would be cool to write to God (This was before I knew about the movie Letters to God) and in that series there will also be seven "lessons" or posts. Anyway I hope you enjoy the next seven posts cause they will be awesome. (The first one doesn't count though because it's the music video for the actual song).
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
What the world is doing to our (my) generation
I've been thinking a lot lately. In today's world, we almost have everything at the push of a button. Quite frankly I find it somewhat ridiculous sometimes. And technology is moving so quickly, it's becoming harder to keep up with. You can buy a phone and two weeks later (I kid you not) the next latest and greatest version comes out!
Then everyone wants what other people have. I can honestly say I am completely guilty of this. For example someone could have a grand piano (I'm in love with those!!) and I can't help but want it soooooo badly! Or someone is better at something that I am and I'm jealous. We can't help!
Now here we have our (my) generation. We are becoming greedy, inconsiderate and violent. (really I could go on and on)Why? Because of television, the internet, music, and the way society is playing out. We may not know it but, TV is flashing all of this stuff in our face constantly. It's always have the greastest body, or the prettiest skin. And it's not like MTV is helping or anything. 16 and pregnant? If I got pregnant at 16 I'd get slapped in the face and grounded for life!? Not a television show!!
Here we have the matter of violence. You have all these influences around us and it's hard not to give in. Video games for example. I play Modern Warfare 2, 3 and Black Ops. Yes it is rate M and I think it would be smart if parents payed attention to labeling.... Anyway, I have my live chat on so I can talk to anyone who has there mic on. A good 95% of the people I hear talking are kids probably under the age of 13 cusing me out. That nerves me the most. You're 13 for cying out loud! You shouldn't be cusing people out or playing this game in the first place! The sad part is, this all translates into real life.
Then there's clothing. Have you walked into your local Target or JCP? I've been in the childrens clothing department and it is a MESS.. Half the clothing is stuff a teenager my age would be wearing! Ripped jeans, "sexy" tops and crap like that. What are we doing to kids these days?
1. We are spoiling the crap out of them! I know you want them to have a better life then you did, but eventually you have to realize when it's time to say no. All we are doing is teaching them that they can have whatever they want whenever they want it.
2. We are overprotective. Yes I understand with all this madness in todays society you want to keep your kid safe. I understand that. But there comes a time when you have to stop and just let things happen or let them figure it out on their own...
3. Not everyone wins... As harsh as it may sound, it's true. Come on, everyone wins sports? That in my opinion is a step to far. It's like little kids communisim. Everyone is equal. If she gets this you can have it too. As much as we wish it could work out this way, it just doesn't. Real life still goes on.
Music. The one sacred art of mine that society has managed to pervert! We have songs about sex, and songs about drugs and getting high. Seriously? Are we trying to mess people up? Raps about violence and thugery (<-- word?) You'd be suprised what kid and teens pick up through music. I pick up a lot from music. Music for me is inspiring. It shouldn't be about how you get high at parties.. Owl City (aka Adam Young) and Tenth Avenue North write amazing music. I wish more music was written this way. It's inspiring and doesn't teach you how to smoke a joint...
It's the stuff like this that sets me off. It bothers me and I hate watching society play out like this. I really wish there was an easy way to fix everything (sadly there is not). I am terriffied of my generation and what we have set up for ourselves. Are we going to crash and burn? Or can we fix the mess we've made?
Now I'm not telling you how to parent your kids, cause I'm just a teen myself. But I am noticing all of this and I want this out there, beacuse it's all true. I know a lot of people could care less, but I do care. And if I'm the only one, that's fine with me. But I can't just sit here and watch anymore. It's just driving me insane...
Then everyone wants what other people have. I can honestly say I am completely guilty of this. For example someone could have a grand piano (I'm in love with those!!) and I can't help but want it soooooo badly! Or someone is better at something that I am and I'm jealous. We can't help!
Now here we have our (my) generation. We are becoming greedy, inconsiderate and violent. (really I could go on and on)Why? Because of television, the internet, music, and the way society is playing out. We may not know it but, TV is flashing all of this stuff in our face constantly. It's always have the greastest body, or the prettiest skin. And it's not like MTV is helping or anything. 16 and pregnant? If I got pregnant at 16 I'd get slapped in the face and grounded for life!? Not a television show!!
Here we have the matter of violence. You have all these influences around us and it's hard not to give in. Video games for example. I play Modern Warfare 2, 3 and Black Ops. Yes it is rate M and I think it would be smart if parents payed attention to labeling.... Anyway, I have my live chat on so I can talk to anyone who has there mic on. A good 95% of the people I hear talking are kids probably under the age of 13 cusing me out. That nerves me the most. You're 13 for cying out loud! You shouldn't be cusing people out or playing this game in the first place! The sad part is, this all translates into real life.
Then there's clothing. Have you walked into your local Target or JCP? I've been in the childrens clothing department and it is a MESS.. Half the clothing is stuff a teenager my age would be wearing! Ripped jeans, "sexy" tops and crap like that. What are we doing to kids these days?
1. We are spoiling the crap out of them! I know you want them to have a better life then you did, but eventually you have to realize when it's time to say no. All we are doing is teaching them that they can have whatever they want whenever they want it.
2. We are overprotective. Yes I understand with all this madness in todays society you want to keep your kid safe. I understand that. But there comes a time when you have to stop and just let things happen or let them figure it out on their own...
3. Not everyone wins... As harsh as it may sound, it's true. Come on, everyone wins sports? That in my opinion is a step to far. It's like little kids communisim. Everyone is equal. If she gets this you can have it too. As much as we wish it could work out this way, it just doesn't. Real life still goes on.
Music. The one sacred art of mine that society has managed to pervert! We have songs about sex, and songs about drugs and getting high. Seriously? Are we trying to mess people up? Raps about violence and thugery (<-- word?) You'd be suprised what kid and teens pick up through music. I pick up a lot from music. Music for me is inspiring. It shouldn't be about how you get high at parties.. Owl City (aka Adam Young) and Tenth Avenue North write amazing music. I wish more music was written this way. It's inspiring and doesn't teach you how to smoke a joint...
It's the stuff like this that sets me off. It bothers me and I hate watching society play out like this. I really wish there was an easy way to fix everything (sadly there is not). I am terriffied of my generation and what we have set up for ourselves. Are we going to crash and burn? Or can we fix the mess we've made?
Now I'm not telling you how to parent your kids, cause I'm just a teen myself. But I am noticing all of this and I want this out there, beacuse it's all true. I know a lot of people could care less, but I do care. And if I'm the only one, that's fine with me. But I can't just sit here and watch anymore. It's just driving me insane...
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